6 Kinky Reasons to Get Your 'Strap On'

Sex toys can be good instruments to spice up your sex life. It can heat up the intensity of lovemaking that’s simmering down. The strap-on is one of the common sex toys and instruments that people buy sex toy shops. There could be many reasons why the strap-on dildo is considered a hot item not just in the world of BDSM, but even in regular, kinky sex. Some reasons are based on scientific basis, while some are just based on the long-held beliefs regarding the phallus. Whatever the reasons are, using a strap-on in sex is considered extremely kinky, especially for the uninitiated. It is for this reason that we explore some of the reasons to shed some light on this hot topic.

The Belief of Penis-Centric Superiority

It has been a long-standing (but unfounded) belief that whoever wields the penis has the sexual superiority and possesses other sorts of power. Society has somewhat accepted this as the norm for the longest time. Historically, sex has been considered as give-and-take activity – where men ‘give’ and women ‘take’. The traditional perception is that anatomy is connected to gender and that men were seen to have the penis to thrust ad ejaculate and women have the vagina to receive the penis and to be thrust into.

In modern times, this belief still lives on. However, women have found a way to take advantage of this mindset to gain the upper hand when it comes to sex. Some men get a kinky feeling when being ‘taken’ by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo.

The Strap-on is a Force Multiplier

Men already have their natural penises intact, but some feel the inadequacy due to ‘size’. With this, there are strap-on types that are made specifically for men to increase their member size. Also, women find it terrifyingly arousing when they know they’re going to be penetrated by an artificial dick wielded by a man.

On a reverse role, women who wear strap-on dildos are given a more dominant image which adds to the kinkiness level of the sexual act. Men who have submissive tendencies will find their partners more arousing. This will add a new level of exploration and enjoyment when it comes to sex.

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The Strap-on Heightens Sexual Pleasure

Couples who are sexually adventurous or those who are naturally open-minded about sex can explore the possibility of using strap-ons to explore another side of their lovemaking. They can have this new concept discussed with each other and they can buy strap ons together. Adding strap-ons in the lovemaking scene can be an exciting activity for couples. This can build the excitement to new heights and can bring a whole new sense of pleasure.

The Strap-on Redefines Lesbian Sex

Lesbian sex will become more enjoyable and pleasure will soar to new heights thanks to the strap-on. With this accessory, lesbian lovemaking is given more physical connection and depth (pun intended). The ‘giving’ partner’s hands are no longer preoccupied with caressing, stroking or inserting the hand-held dildo anymore. The strap-on can help her hands explore her partner’s body further and discovering more sensitive parts in the process. Also, some strap-ons are specially designed for female wearers and come with a built-in clit stimulator to give the wearer simultaneous pleasure while pleasuring her partner. Now that’s a win-win situation!

The Strap-on Opens Up Backdoor Fun for Couples

Anal sex is still viewed as a taboo despite the increasing number of myth-busting publications and communications from sex bloggers, experts and sex educators. Society still views anal sex as illicit, kinky and depraved. Women who are into anal sex are often branded as a ‘slut’, ‘skank’, ‘whore’ and many other derogatory labels. Men who enjoy anal pleasure are immediately labeled as gay due to the misconception that only gay men like it up the ass.

All this reasoning by society is wrong. We’ve come far when it comes to knowledge and the old concepts and beliefs should already be set aside.

Men who have the kink for strap-on sex or being ‘pegged’ by their female partners reiterate that they are not ‘into real cock’. Their fantasy is only limited to this setup and nothing more. What makes strap-on kinky is because of its use in anal sex, which is another kinky activity in itself.

Sex Toys and Accessories are Essentially Kinky

Let’s face it. Adding sex toys and accessories into lovemaking can create a new dimension to it and is also considered kinky. The idea of enhancements in sex is a highly kinky concept for couples who don’t own one. The strap-on is considered a higher level of kinkiness that couples can jointly explore on. Starting from handcuffs, whips and mini vibrators, these can already be considered startup sex toys. You won’t find the strap-on in the ‘beginner’s sex toys’ section in sex toy shops or online adult toy sites.

Strap-ons are growing in popularity not only in the BDSM scene, but also in couples who seek new ways of enjoying sex. This is because the strap-on is a versatile accessory which can be used for different purposes. Whatever the purpose you’ll be using it for, be sure to consult your partner in this relatively new concept so that both of you can discover ways to enjoy it.